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The 48 Laws of Power Law 38 "THINK AS YOU LIKE BUT BEHAVE LIKE OTHERS", By Robert Greene


LAW 38  

THINK AS YOU LIKE BUT BEHAVE LIKE OTHERS 

If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness.

This law suggests that while you should maintain your individuality and think for yourself, it is important to conform to the expectations and behaviors of the group or society you find yourself in.

The reasoning behind this law is that standing out too much can create animosity and make you a target for criticism or even attack. Conversely, blending in with the group can help you avoid unwanted attention and maintain a certain level of respect and acceptance.

It is important to note, however, that this law does not suggest sacrificing your values or beliefs for the sake of fitting in. Instead, it is about being strategic in your behavior and adapting to the environment without compromising your integrity.

Overall, Law 38 encourages a balance between individuality and conformity, recognizing the importance of both in different situations.


 

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