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The 48 Laws of Power Law 46 "NEVER APPEAR TOO PERFECT", By Robert Greene


LAW 46

NEVER APPEAR TOO PERFECT 

Appearing better than others is always dangerous, but most dangerous of all is to appear to have no fault or weaknesses. Envy mates silent enemies. It is smart to occasionally display defects, and admit to harmless vices, in order to deflect envy and appear more human and approachable. Only gods and the dead can seem perfect with impunity. 

The basic premise of this law is that if you want to be seen as powerful and influential, you should avoid coming across as flawless and perfect all the time. People are naturally skeptical of those who appear to have no flaws or weaknesses, and they may even be resentful of them.

Instead, the author recommends that you allow yourself to be seen as human, with all the flaws and imperfections that come with being human. This can make you more relatable and approachable, and it can also make you seem more trustworthy and authentic.

One way to do this is to deliberately reveal some of your flaws or mistakes, especially if they are relatively minor. By doing this, you can show that you are not infallible, and you can also demonstrate your willingness to take responsibility for your actions.

Another way to avoid appearing too perfect is to avoid flaunting your accomplishments or talents too much. While it's certainly okay to be proud of your achievements, constantly bragging or showing off can make you seem arrogant and unapproachable.

Overall, the key to following Law 46 is to strike a balance between showing your strengths and abilities, while also being willing to acknowledge and accept your weaknesses and mistakes. By doing so, you can build trust and rapport with others, and you can also position yourself as a powerful but relatable leader.


 

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