LAW 9
WIN THROUGH YOUR ACTIONS, NEVER THROUGH ARGUMENT
Any momentary triumph you think you have gained through argument is really a Pyrrhic victory: The resentment and ill will you stir up is stronger and lasts longer than any momentary change of opinion. It is much more powerful to get others to agree with you through your actions, without saying a word. Demonstrate, do not explicate.
This law states that actions speak louder than words, and that it is better to demonstrate your power and abilities through your actions rather than trying to argue or persuade others through words alone. According to the author Robert Greene, people are naturally skeptical and resistant to being convinced by others, especially if they feel they are being manipulated or coerced. Therefore, it is more effective to let your actions speak for themselves and win people over by demonstrating your competence and skill.
Greene recommends that you avoid getting into arguments and debates, which can be counterproductive and damage your reputation. Instead, focus on demonstrating your strengths and abilities through your actions, and let others draw their own conclusions about your character and abilities.
Overall, the key message of this law is to be proactive and demonstrate your value through your actions, rather than relying on words and persuasion to win people over.

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